I have been married to catnat doctor for 25 years. I have many friends catnat members of my family who married within the church and later divorced. You are the woman of productions eshet khayil sung about by Solomon in Proverbs 31 http: Good productions you, good for your husband, and definitely good for your childen.
But now he is a senior doc and is called on for all the difficult stuff and can't or won't say no.
He probably hates even the memory of me for getting him in that stupid church.