All of which will remind her that she wants you to convert so you can be together for eternity.
I really admire all of you here, who are married but live a very lonely live. There is NO guarantee that marrying a returned missionary RM in the temple equates with love and happiness.
But it is the path we have to go through to get to that point that really scares me.
Sorry you had to go through this, but it's for the best if she's about to leave on a mission.